The Domestic Yogi says: be kind to yourself. Speak up if you need some alone time. or some time away from the kid(s). Expect to be given attitude about it, but if you don't then be happy. Go to a chick flick with your girls. Or if not, go by yourself, and enjoy it. Embrace the moment, and don't fret too much about how the movie girls always have the very best friends in the world (who always know what to say and do), and have men who always (in the end) know how to please her.
Movies are to escape. Reality is reality. But it sure is nice to escape for a little bit.
I know I am a better mom when I finally stand up for myself and get a little time away. I wish it wasn't always such a struggle.